As both an actress, singer, dancer, and fashion designer, it’s no exaggeration to call Jennifer Lopez one of Hollywood’s most multi-talented artists. J. Lo (Jennifer Lopez’s nickname) has always resonated in all the roles he has played.

She has the once-famous hit On the floor, more than 15 films are considered immortal and the sand of $ 1.75 million (nearly VND 38 billion) for 40 minutes of stage performance are the strongest evidence for the successful career of the “Latin queen”.

Jennifer Lopez

But it is often said that women who are too successful often do not avoid difficulties on the way to love. Unfortunately, J. Lo is no exception.

The labyrinth of love and the betrayed “trail”

In 1997, when J. Lo was still laying the first bricks of her career, she married Ojani Noa, a waitress at a restaurant she frequented.

J. Lo’s marriage lasted only one year, from February 1997 to January 1998. At the time, Ojani told the press that the pain of his broken marriage broke his heart to pieces.

“I was really hurt and in great pain. It was my first love, my first marriage. I’ve been looking forward to being with her for the rest of my life. But that never happened. She chose her career over me,” Ojani said.

And maybe because it was so painful as he confessed, Ojani had a “revenge” on his ex-wife that couldn’t have been worse.

Jennifer Lopez and Ojani Noa

After the divorce, J. Lo’s career took off like a kite to the wind. She constantly appeared in feature films and began to become better known to the public. At this time, Ojani came up with the idea of releasing “hot movies” of the two to make money.

It took the On the floor vocalist 6 years and countless lawsuits to stop Ojani Noa’s plot.

More than 13 years after their first divorce, in 2001, J. Lo fell in love with dancer Cris Judd while filming the music video for Love Don’t Cost a Thing. Just a few months after publicly dating, in September 2001, the two officially moved into the same house. However, this marriage of J. Lo also quickly went down the same path last time.

In June 2002, J. Lo and Cris officially went their separate ways. None of them shared the reason for the breakup. Due to being too obsessed after being “stabbed in the back” by her first husband, J. Lo actively compensated Cris $ 14 million (nearly VND 340 billion) so that he did not reveal any details about their private life.

Jennifer Lopez and Cris Judd

Nearly two years after her split from Cris, in 2004, J. Lo married singer-songwriter Marc Anthony. This third marriage of J. Lo is somewhat more fulfilling and lasting than the previous two. After 7 years of marriage, the two have twins together.

However, in 2011, just 1 month after their 7th wedding anniversary, J. Lo and Marc announced their separation and officially divorced in 2014.

Jennifer Lopez vs Marc Anthony

Later, in an interview in 2020, J. Lo shared that she was betrayed more than once. What her first husband did was the most bitter affair known to the public, but while dating men who J. Lo called unlucky enough to marry, many cheated on her.

Accordingly, many people speculate that J. Lo is referring to an affair with baseball player Alex Rodriguez. The two had planned to get married in mid-2020 but had not yet wed, Jennifer Lopez ended her relationship with Alex Rodriguez when she discovered he was flirting with a TV star online.

“Go around the world” to realize true love right next to you

It would be remiss not to mention “Batman” Ben Affleck when talking about the Latin queen’s love line. Ben is J. Lo’s current husband and was also the artist’s “groom” more than 1 decade ago.

In November 2002, shortly after her split from Cris, her second husband, J. Lo revealed that she had been proposed by Ben Affleck in Boston. In September 2003, the couple suddenly announced the postponement of their wedding due to excessive public attention. After many delays, in January 2004, J. Lo and Ben Affleck announced their separation to the regret of the public.

The marriage plan failed, but both quickly found new happiness after that.

Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck at the moment

After nearly 20 years, in 2021, the two shocked the public by announcing their reunion. Not long after, in August 2022, the two officially announced their marriage. This time, they actually had a wedding, not just a plan that didn’t work out like the story nearly 2 decades ago.

Jennifer Lopez is enjoying happy marriages with Ben Affleck

Looking back on her past relationships, J. Lo once shared this: “I feel like a female warrior. After everything, every moment from happiness to grief, I realized that nothing can take away my desire to love and be loved.”

In the present tense, while enjoying a happy life with her husband “Batman”, J. Lo does not forget to express his gratitude for all the past breakdowns. Although not sharing specifically about the lessons learned from pain, J. Lo still affirmed: “3 broken marriages have given me many valuable lessons to realize what is important to create a happy marriage.”